A woman was interviewed on a radio program – she was
very insistent that she could not do anything healthy or positive for herself –
interjecting the excuse of the but at
every question asked by the host, a psychologist. My first thought - what life
experiences were behind her forceful but?
We
can and do get away with a good but
in plenty of occasions. BUT, did you know that a good resounding but can and will cease growth
and movement in our physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual health? What’s
going on behind your personal but –
making it such a powerful excuse? Was this guest abused, neglected, hated,
not supported, dismissed in her timeline, giving her the great excuse of her but, but, but. Using her but made her miss an awful lot of life.
Turning the other cheek - know that there are many
socially acceptable uses of your but. I would love to go out with you tonight but my child is
in a play and I need to be there. Or, I wish I could join you, but my husband
and I are going on a date.
Yes, we all deserve to use an occasional but – we’re exhausted, over-extended, just
want to stay home and read – no explanations needed. But I hope we can
be more aware of our but’s history,
and also of how our but has hindered
us.
Consider taking more chances. People are onto your but over time – so cut back on excuses,
be brave, don’t miss wonderful opportunities. Fear can bring out a but in the best
of us. I, for one, want to live free from the confines of my but.
I agree that using a hearty but is powerful – yes, I use it, but something that has helped me was
making plans with family and friends so I had to be accountable and trustworthy,
and make me aware of my but. In the
exercise realm, I found that by doing this I created internal and external motivations
to walk or bike – and was counted on.
As a side note, my but began to
recede over time – and am proud of being a fairly reliable person.
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